Discerning The Direction Of Your Dreams

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Sometimes I wonder why God gives me these Herculean dreams. I can be thinking that I have it all figured out, and then suddenly God gives me more.

That’s not a complaint really, I’m thankful HE trusts me so much, to assign these special jobs to me. But I am just sitting here talking to God, and maniacally ruminating over every idea and project.

Thinking,

Dear Lord, can I handle all of this? God I have the first documentary to work on… now you bless me with this one. But you’re right LORD, this project is immensly more meaningful, powerful, and massively needed in the Mexican community. God what about my childrens book series? I should be doing that as my PRIORITY. After all, that is my very first project idea. Not to mention my illustrator is patiently waiting on me to finish this. GET IT TOGETHER DEANNA! I tell myself. Tick-tock, tick-tock! Time is of the essence D! Where will I get the resources and finances to fund this? How? How? How? Please tell me now LORD! Yikes! This could take years. Where do I even find the equipment? What about that project I wanted to help my daughter with? They will be grown and gone before I know it. (Big sigh).What about my creative business idea? Can I incorporate that in too, into my schedule and into my life? I have to! It’s mandatory not optional.What if I never finish, or I die? That’s like a permanent, irreversible, INCOMPLETE on my entire life. God please let me accomplish all these wonderful ideas you have put on my mind! It scares me to think what if my dreams don’t come true? What if my time runs out?Etc. Etc.

That would be the greatest tragedy of my life. Those are the things I obsess over daily.

Mix together my maniacal thoughts, with a dash of fear, a half cup of doubt and cup of procrastination. Guess what you get?

You get a lone loba writer, stranded on the deserted island, of the Prisoner Of Words. Cautiously, waiting for the spirits to guide me in the right direction. Waiting to be free to run into the wild once again, to regain my clarity and my vision.

I don’t have all the answers. Most days, I can see the vision clearly, and other days I don’t have the focus. But the appetite, the hunger is never entirely satisfied. Just when I think I’m full, I get hungry for more.

My brain tries to put all the pieces of the puzzle together quickly and painlessly. I try to be strategic in my plans and organization. In the end I know I can do more, and I have to do more. Most importantly I must conquer the fear.

My ideas are as colorful and infinite as Charlie’s Evergobstopper, in Willy Wonka And The Chocolate Factory. They don’t dull or diminish.” They keep coming. To this I marvel at my God!

I found some apps this weekend to help me keep track of my writing productivity and projects. I am excited that I’m on a new journey. One I’ve never been on before. One that scares the bleep outta me.

But I feel my spirit leading me. It’s difficult for this lone loba to go to uncharted territory and pave a path. But I must confess that when a dream placed on you brings you to tears, and you feel it inside all of your soul, you follow it.

This is what I am being led to do. Hold nothing back. It’s better to try and fail than to always wonder what if. And it’s EVEN BETTER to make your magic in the world.

Leave your mark. Trust your instincts! They will lead you if you listen!

God Bless. I pray that God is giving you direction in your own creative dreams and goals. And that you can listen to the spirit guiding you.

You love what you find time to do.

-Dr. Robert Anthony

Quote: Anthony, Robert Dr. THINK BIG A Think Collection, Berkley, Aug. 1999

Photo Credit: http://www.freeimages.com,TomTown

Intellectual Property, Why You Should Create and Conceal

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Once you accept an idea it’s an idea whose time has come

-Dr.Robert Anthony

Photo Credit:Thinking Minds

Last Monday I was working on my Bible devotional: Listening For The Voice Of God- Growing in Faith Every Day. It’s a Women of Faith study guide series about discernment. I was initially inspired by the depiction that, “God was the Master Designer and Artist”. And that, “The first chapter of Genesis tells the story of creation. One of the greatest wonders of the story of creation is that God created with mere words.” And “With syllables, God spoke and creation happened.”

Is that not remarkable? How God created things into existence with HIS voice and HIS words! Ok I know some of you are rolling your eyes. My atheist friends, especially you! But you’re my friends, so you love me and support my craft. ๐Ÿ˜—

The creation story is really inspirational to me because I see myself as a very creative person with endless ideas. I aspire to create written works and perhaps one day become a published author in the children’s literature genre. I also have many other ideas and creations on my mind. Such as a documentary I want to produce. And a few other project ideas. But I like to keep those ideas top secret. ๐Ÿค‘ They aren’t ready to be shared.

Are you a creator too? Perhaps you may find the following information helpful.

Last year, I became interested in researching copyright and trademark laws. Especially because I was about to start my blog and other writing projects . I figured I better read up on some stuff concerning intellectual property.

Honestly, copyright was easier to grasp. Patents and trademarks, were a little more tricky and elaborate for me.

So lets talk about what exactly is intellectual property? And why should you know about IP rights?

Intellectual property refers to creations of the mind: inventions; literary and artistic works; and symbols, names and images used in commerce.

IP is divided into two categories:

  1. Industrial Property includes;patents for inventions, trademarks, industrial designs,and,geographical indications.
  2. Copyright Covers literary works (such as novels, poems and plays), films, music, artistic works (e.g. drawings, paintings, photographs, and sculptures) and architectural design.

Rights related to copyright include those of performing artists in their performances, producers of phonograms in their recordings, and broadcasting in their radio and television programs.[wipo.int]

If you are interested in educating yourself in greater depths with patent and trademark laws, allow me to direct you to the website for more substantial and thorough information about IP where you can learn: (check below article for links in reference page.)

  • What is Intellectual Property(IP)?
  • Understanding Copyright and Related Rights / Understanding Industrial Property
  • WIPO Intellectual Property Handbook- A comprehensive guide to the policy, law and use of IP.

The most important thing to remember is that, your “ideas” are NOT protected!

The law specifically states in:

Section 102(b) of the Copyright Act:

IN NO CASE does copyright protection for an original work of authorship extend to any idea, procedure, process, system, method of operation, concept, principle or discovery regardless of the form in which it is described, explained, illustrated, or embodied in such work.(Klems, A. Brian)

Basically in layman’s terms, ideas can only be protected once they have been written, and or created in a tangible form . This is important because this literally means that you must safeguard your ideas. No one needs to know the juicy details until you have created it. Keep your mouth shut with your ideas. Protect them during construction stages. Conceal at all costs!

There have been instances where various persons have inquired about my ideas. I usually give them a limited amount of information about my works, basically a vague and general idea. I smile and tell them I can’t go into detail, because it’s my intellectual property. Perhaps they judge me, but hey, I’m overprotective about my ideas. It’s better to be safe than sorry.

USlegal.com, emphasizes that, “Above all, Intellectual Property (IP) can only work for you if you understand what it is, why you want it, and what you are going to do with it.”

They have given us 10 rules to use as a guide. (Subject to revisions as changes become evident in future years.)

Here they are:

  1. Get professional help
  2. Know your (Intellectual Property) Rights
  3. Think about why you want IP (i.e., What you will actually do with it)
  4. If you don’t protect the IP your innovation is less likely to happen
  5. What’s in a name?
  6. Be realistic about what you can, and cannot, protect
  7. It’s big business & controversial
  8. Keep your idea secret until you have filed a patent application
  9. Trade secrets
  10. Make sure the IP is owned in a way that allows development

Note these basic terms with definitions;

Copyright: A copyright gives the owner the exclusive right to reproduce, distribute, perform, display, or license his work.

Patent: A patent is the right to exclude others from making, using or selling the invention throughout the United States of America (A limited monopoly granted by the government for the term period of the patent. After the patent expires, anyone may make, use or sell the invention.”

Trademark: Include words, names; symbols, and logos. The intent of trademark law is to prevent consumer confusion about the origin of a product. (USlegal.com)

Ok, all of that probably sounds confusing, and or boring, but if you are still reading, thank YOU! You, as creators, will benefit from this critical information. Even just knowing the basic terms and definitions will greatly benefit you in your artistic endeavors.

One article I came across basically reiterated and enhanced what I learned in my devotional last week. That we are creators because we are a product of the ultimate CRE-A-TOR! The “Master Designer/Artist,” Who is God!

In particular, this article had a section that was geared specifically towards writers & authors. So it caught my attention. This article greatly described what my Bible devotional had touched on, but with a much greater emphasis. The article brilliantly illustrates the power of words. The inspiring way we use words to create, just like our creator.

Here is an excerpt from the article.

Of all three statutory intellectual property regimes, copyright may be most obviously structured around an origins myth, because original creation is the touchstone of copyright protection. The Copyright Act provides copyright protection for “original works of authorship fixed in any tangible expression. “…………An author of a copyrightable work has been laboriously described as having a “creative genius” and as being taken hold of by a “creative spark” Authors reap the “creative powers of their mind” using their “fancy or imagination,” and “intellect.”An author, although left undefined by the Copyright Act, straddles the domains of the human and divine. As a model of human ingenuity, the author “wr[ites] a ‘self” possessing the unique qualities of an individual, owning his words, and thus owning himself. He is nonetheless divinely inspired. The author as a concept began with the author as a vessel for independent, God-like forces. Indeed the metaphor of the author as divinely gifted is an active metaphor in copyright case law. Roberta Kwall has traced this parallel between authorship and God calling it a “mirroring argument,” comparing the first creation narrative in Genesis to wonders of artistic creation:”man’s capacity for artistic creation mirrors or imitates God’s creative capacity.”(Silbey,Jessica M.)

Our human minds are capable of creating fascinating works. Just look at how creations and inventions influence society. Creativity and ingenuity aided astronauts to reach the moon.

The digital and information age have also revolutionized the technology of our modern society. Which has also sparked a new generation of creators including the unrivaled social media innovators .

Anyone and everyone can now create content. So be leery of too many folks knowing all the specific details of your ideas. And research the laws or at least consult with knowledgeable experts.

Works Cited:

Anthony, Robert Dr.,Think Big A Think Collection” Berkley, Aug 1999.

Feinberg, Margaret., “Listening For The Voice Of God, Growing in Faith Every Day”, Women of Faith Study Guide Series.

Klems A. Brian., “Can You Copyright an Idea?”, Writer’s Digest, July 29,2013

Silver, Jessica M., “The Mythical Beginning of Intellectual Property” (2008) Suffolk University Law School Faculty Published Paper 48, http://Isp.nellco.org/suffolk_fp/48

Websites

https://definitions.uslegal.com/i/intellectual-property

Entrepreneur.com

USlegal.com

Www.wipo.int/about-ip/en/

Photo Credit: Billy Alexander, http://www.freeimages.com

12 Little Known Ways, To Make Magical Memories With Your Children

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“It is not enough to give what we have; we must also give what we are.”

It is during the most mundane part of our day, that we find ourselves lost in the monotony of life. We wake up, we go to work, and we take care of the family in between. We repeat this vicious cycle: Wake up. Go to work. Go home. Go to bed. Wake up. Do it all over again. Before you know it, the year has passed. Then two years zoom by. Astonishingly, the next thing you know, 2 years turns to 7. Eventually an entire decade flashes by!

As you sit there, reflecting over how the time has slipped away from you, and thinking to yourself,

“Where has the time gone?”

Before you have time to start mulling over your many regrets, missed opportunities, and failures, instead glance over at your growing munchkins! Sit there and observe every little intricate detail about them. Admire their growing little bodies. They are your life. They are your treasure. They are your most valuable possession! Savor this life!

Parents, do not allow the weight of the world to poison you! Eh! We have daily battles. Much to our dismay, our little rugrats can become a nuisance, compounding to our ever present stress. Additionally, we become burdened with bills and problems. Every day the stress snowballs out of our control. Consequently, during these trials, we fail to realize that our children just want to play with us. They don’t understand job layoffs, divorces, and other adult catastrophes. Children want to know they are loved and protected.

Therefore, rid yourself from the urge to solve all of life’s problems overnight, and just spend time with your children. If there is anything I know for sure, it’s that children will remember whether you had time for them. My parents were dirt poor and yet they always made time for us. Furthermore, it didn’t matter to me one bit that we lived in an efficiency rather than a fancy house. It mattered to me that my mami always figured out how to have a hot meal for us. Even when she had to use a propane tank to cook our meals. Yes! A propane tank! Lord knows I am thankful for frijoles y tortillas. I’m a proud frijolera!

Loving parents are never too PROUD to do whatever it takes to PROVIDE for their children. Laboriosly, they research for how to retrieve the things the family desperately needs. God just blesses parents with that cadaver dog instinct. It’s in their DNA. They can find all of their needs. They make a way! Therefore, do not worry about the upcoming winter and all of the seasonal stress, and the bills. Do not panic because the kids are growing like weeds and need new clothes. Rest easy in the knowledge that everything will be ok. It always is. Christmas will be here before you know it, and if you just REMEMBER these 12 ways to make magical memories with your children, it just might relieve some of that seasonal stress.

  1. Learn Together- Help them with School Work And Or Homeschooling
  2. Worship God Together- At Home, Church, In the Car, Anywhere
  3. Devotional Times- Family Prayers, Reading Bible Together, Studying & Discussing The Word Of God, Memorizing Scriptures
  4. Playing- Watching the children play, and or joining them, Build Forts, Castles, Pretend Play
  5. Singing- Music is magical! Let them sing. Sing with them. Invite the neighbors too!
  6. Gardening- Grow things together: Plants, Veggies, Fruits, Flowers, whatever!!!
  7. Eating- Eat together as a family. For a more magical memory, set the table and enjoy dinner at the family table together.
  8. Read- Read books to them. Let them read books to you. Read books to each other. Invite the grandparents to read to them. Record those memories on video and make it a family keepsake/heirloom.
  9. Current Events- Have conversations with your children about what is going on in the world. Let’s bring up kids who give a damn! They really are our future.
  10. Movie Night- Family Flicks & Popcorn Night (My personal favorite and one I plan to implement weekly this year)
  11. Baking/Cooking- Cook together. Bake together. And teach them to share with the less fortunate. Feed someone who is hungry.
  12. Start A Family Business- Teach them about budgeting money, finances, and being good stewards.

Now, don’t fret about tomorrow my friends. Worry only about today. God Be With You!

The more love we share with everyone, the more loveable we become

Quotations Taken From:

Anthony, Robert Dr. THINK BIG, A Think Collection, Berkley 1999

OLGA CASTILLO, Born To Box

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I had the most honorable privilege of becoming aquianted with a remarkable woman. Olga Castillo, a 43 year old woman, and grandmother, who shared with me that she is a boxer. Y, orgullamente es Chicana tambien!๐Ÿ˜

It was inspirational to hear her story, that I asked her to share all of the most intimate details with me, so that I could share it on my blog. I love women empowerment and this story just embodies all of that woman power!

Olga started boxing at the age of 33. She has been boxing for a decade now. She says she started out by learning the basics and worked her way into competing in matches.

Olga confided with me that she had experienced some hardships in her life and that she was already “FIGHTING ALONE.”

She decided to join, because boxing is in her blood. Admittedly, she confesses that boxing is her therapy.

Maybe to you and I that sounds a little unorthodox, but after you hear the circumstances she endured, it makes sense that she would turn to boxing, a formerly male dominated blood sport, and destroy that fallacy with all her poder.

Women…belong in the ring! Especially if that is where they choose to be.

So let us go back a little.

Horrifically, Olga was molested by her own brother as a young girl. This in turn caused her to feel like she didn’t have a voice. She grew up to be shy and understandably a little insecure.

Once a married adult, she found herself trapped in an abusive marriage for 4 years. In these dark years, she was beaten by the very person who had vowed to love her and cherish her. Thus too, contributing to her insecurity.

One source says, “Sadly, one out of three women are victims of domestic violence. And these women come from all walks of life-yes, all! Whether rich or poor, young or old, whether educated or not, employed or not, religious or not, abuse abides by no boundaries.”(Hunt,June)

I myself, have become disheartened to learn about how bad women are really treated….all over the world. It’s like God has given me a revelation about something that has always been there…but I never paid attention at the severity of it.

Olga says that overcoming her past was the deeper fight. With boxing, she fought to find her voice. She says that with each hit and each punch to the bag, her voice gets louder and louder.

With boxing she has learned to stand up for herself. She is no longer insecure. She is a role model to all the young women who want to pursue boxing as a sport.

Boxing has helped build up her self-esteem, confidence, and strength. She now can stand up for herself and others. And most importantly she found that inner power within herself, that she credits boxing, for giving that back to her.

Check out her boxing moves in the ring in the link below.

https://youtu.be/9ETFT6f6hjU

Olga says the toughest part is staying focused in the ring. She encourages all women to give boxing a try. It was once a male dominated sport, but women have taken it to the Olympics. Which is a big thing!

You never know, you might like it.

She Fights!

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Most of our lives are about proving something, either to ourselves or to someone else.

Ok so I am giving a little sneak peak at what I am working on for my next blog.
It has two to three underlying themes that I really want to cover. I am really excited about this one.

Obviously “boxing” is a dead giveaway with the photo attached, but there’s more to this sport than meets the eye. Stay tuned in the next weeks as I wrap up my research.

Works Cited:

Quote taken from:

Anthony, Robert Dr. THINK BIG A Think Collection. Berkley Publishing. August 1999.

Photo Credits:

Olga Castillo

A Story About How Benevolent Giving Impacts Communities

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You will find, as you look back upon your life, that the moments that stand out are the moments when you have done things for others

-Henry Drummond

From The Treasure Chest

Papi use to tell me stories about growing up in poverty in Mexico. I remember how he would chastise and lecture us about our wastefulness.

He would shake his head with disapproval if we were being wasteful, and then would proceed to tell us about his experiences as a young boy in Mexico.

He would tell us that he was so poor that even as a 15 year old boy…he didn’t have shoes to wear. He would get teased and bullied by other kids at school because he didn’t have shoes.

To make matters worse…he would work out in the heat to help abuelito. With no shoes, I can’t even begin to imagine what the hot dirt did to his feet. Blister and burn him for sure.

He would tell us his stories with pride. He knew he had worked hard. They would pay him with livestock. He was giddy about a pig he earned once.

That was how it was back then. People didn’t have money, so…they bartered. They would “borrow” my Papi for field hands and manual labor…but pay him with what they had.

Papi didn’t tell us this because he wanted sympathy or empathy. Rather, he used this as a life lesson to teach us that we should be good stewards of everything we have. If he caught us being wasteful, we would hear about it.

I was blessed to have him as my Papi for 60 years. In those years I have many fond memories. Some of my favorite, are when he would take clothes and supplies to his family in Mexico. He even managed to buy trucks and take them to his brothers in Mexico.

I remember we would put a camper on the truck and load it up with boxes and boxes of clothes in the back.

I even remember when we took the clothes to an impoverished town to deliver the clothes. I will never ever forget what I saw and how I felt.

I saw my Papi calling all the people out to the truck. Papi had left the camper at the rancho. So the people just hopped right on the bed of the truck and began digging through the clothes. Smiling, laughing, and, taking what they could use.

I felt happy to see people were so elated to receive used clothes. I felt proud that my Papi loved his gente so much, and that he had a big heart for giving. He never forgot about his people.

To this day…I am inspired when I see mi gente buying ropa and zapatos y mas to take to Mexico. I work at a thrift store and am lucky to meet many amazing people.

Not just Mexican people, but many other cultures too. I have seen African women buying in bulk to send to Africa. And many others too.

One day a lady came to my register to check out. I struck up a conversation with her and discovered that she was making her purchase as a ministry gift to the impoverished people in remote areas in Mexico.

I got excited when she told me about her planned trip to make the delivery. I was so happy to hear this because it brought back many memories of my trips to Mexico with goods to deliver to familia and the poor.

I asked the lady to take lots of pictures and to please remember to come back and show me. Well several months passed by.

Then one day the lady came back into the store. Honestly, I didn’t think she would come back, although I hoped she would.

She showed me her photos. We talked and we cried. I listened to her tell about her experience and how thankful the people were. She was so impacted by the people that she said she would do another trip.

They asked her for food. But she said it’s very difficult to bring food from US to Mexico because of restrictions. But she wants to raise funds so that when she is in Mexico next time, she can bring them food too.

I have shared her gofund me link after this post so that you can read her story and maybe you will feel led to make a charitable contribution to her personal ministry in helping the poor.

Or perhaps you can just remember to give when and where you can. If you can’t give goods or funds….please….give kindness. Give your time by volunteering when you can.

Kindness is free. But nobody uses it anymore. I am very disheartened by the callousness of people’s hearts and actions these days.

This topic has been on my heart lately. I am not a perfect woman. I make mistakes. But I am proud that I had parents who taught me to give.

Parents that, despite being dirt poor, were able to bless many many people. I pray that I can be as kind a person as my parents. As kind as this good samaritan lady.

God doesn’t look at the size of your giving. He just wants you to give what you can. I learned from one of my favorite books, The Blessed Life, by Robert Morris, that you can’t outgive God. This book has the best teaching on the subject of giving and tithing. I recommend it to everyone any chance I get.

No matter what or how much you contribute, your giving has a positive impact. I pray that God would bless both the givers and the receivers, for we never know on which end we will be.

https://www.gofundme.com/37itjc0

Works Cited:

Morris, Robert. The Blessed Life

Wallis. L. Charles, The Treasure Chest. 1965. Harper & Row Publishers Inc. 49 East 33rd Street ,New York 16, N.Y.

5 Ways To Obliterate Idleness

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The hours we waste are golden hours

And stand for money lost,

For every idle minute spent

We have to meet the cost

The man who wastes two hours a day

Has hindered his career,

And shortened up his working time

Six hundred hours per year.

Author Unknown

It has been frustrating in the past few weeks to find the free time to write for my blog and to work on my writing projects. Being a full time working mom has left me little to no time to practice my craft.

In the past weeks I would end up writing until 3 or 4 a.m. in the morning after being at work all day. That was already taking its toll on my body and leaving me sleep deprived.

Fortunately for me, I have some amazing employers who have come up with a brilliant revised schedule. One that will allow me, and the other shift manager, to rotate on a much better schedule. It’s like one week of Hades, and one week of Hawaii vacay.

That’s excellent news for me….because that’s 6 days of free time now. I am excited to finally have my most coveted resource, TIME! Time, so that I can finally write my children’s books.

I have made myself a little list of helpful tips to keep me on track with my goals. With some modifications, I am sure anyone can apply it to their own goals.

  1. Create A Work Space For Yourself – A space for yourself to do what you do. Whether you need a shop to do mechanical work on cars, or you need a sewing room to design clothes, make a space for yourself! I have been waiting to find a little desk so that I can do my writing. Finally, a few nights ago I came across one. Already I have more motivation to write, than I did before. Previously, I was trying to accomplish my writing goals on the sofa, bed, and even, the floor. Not ideal in the least. The key is to make and find “your space”. Gradually you can begin to personalize it with all of your special tools and create a more functional environment later.
  2. Have A Written Plan- Keep a little notebook or binder with your plans. As I have gotten older, the less I can remember off the top of my memory. Therefore I must rely on; apps, calendars, task lists, sticky notes, notebooks,etc…Don’t worry it’s normal! That just means we have a lot of people relying on us. Our brains are overloaded with information. So invest in the right tools of your trade.
  3. Eliminate Time-Wasters– Social media is the number one culprit in my case. Give yourself some restrictions and or rewards. For example in my case I might say, After I write and publish my blog post, I may log onto social media. In another example, a mechanic might buy some special tool from Amazon as a reward for fixing 5 cars. I don’t know….you will create your own little rules and rewards to accomadate your special needs.
  4. Use The Time Wisely- For me, I think just establishing a certain time/hour for me to write consistently, will be my key to success. Once you have your space and your tools, all that’s left is you! You have to do the work.
  5. Track Progress/Measurements- My personal way of tracking my own progress is aligned with my new years resolutions I made in January. I could make a new tracker, but honestly I want to keep it simple and achievable.

So there you have it! 5 ways to obliterate idleness. Let me know what type of space you have. Leave comments below. Or share your pics.

Works Cited

Quote taken from:

Braude’s, M., Jacob. 1965. Complete Speakers And Toastmasters Library. Rhyme And VerseTo Help Make A Point. Prentice-Hall, Inc. Englewood Cliffs, N.J.